Older women for younger men dating online has become a new phenomenon on the dating market. A woman is in her forties or fifties, on the hunt for younger men, can be a trend in the future. Why would older women want to date an younger man? The truth is that older women are long neglected by men of their own generations, The result is today there are more and more forties and fifties out there on younger men and older women dating sites.

Jane Collins, 42 years old, was originally from London, has moved to New York Since she ends a unhappy marriage. Last month, she joined one free dating site for young guys and older women and found that a lot of younger guys respond to her online profile, which give her more confidence of dating young guys, she has been contacted by two men who are ten years younger than she is, one claims himself a nice and tall guy, who seems to just want to have a sex relationship with her. The other wants to take her out for dinner. In fact, Jane tried to look for a casual relationship in nightclubs before searching her partner online, but it’s a little hard to find a soul mate, and it wasted her a lot of time and money. So Jane believe that older women dating sites are better.

If you’re a older woman who prefers to date younger men or would like to try doing so. Here are 12 tips which was originally from a article with title “12 Tips for Older Women Dating Younger Men” can ensure you have a pleasant experience.

1.Don’t Consider Yourself a “Cougar”
2. Be Confident
3.Know What You Want
4.Date with No Fear
5.Communicate
6.Don’t Assume the Relationship Isn’t Viable
7.Be Prepared for Scrutiny
8.Don’t Assume He Will Cheat
9.Be His Lover Not His Mommy
10. Enjoy Your Differences
11. Take Care of Yourself
12. Know When to Say Goodbye

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James, a divorced 31-year-old guy from Houston, Texas, consider himself a nice and mature guy. He had a bad relationship with his ex-wife 6 years younger than he is. James has already discovered, unlike those mature women, most younger women don’t quite have the relationship skills necessary to sustain a meaningful relationship. They don’t know how to appreciate the true things in life. This is why James joined some younger men and older women dating sites where he is serious about looking for a mature woman.

Of course, some excellent tips have been written on the subject of younger men dating older women. Sherri Rosen has been dating younger men for quite a while. She wrote a article with title “20 Suggestions for Younger Men Dating Older Women—Online. ~  Sherri Rosen” Here are some of her suggestions (Actually 22 suggestions) for younger guys.

1.When you make the initial contact if it is just for casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it to save time on both sides.
2.To introduce yourself don’t text.
3.If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways.
4.Don’t tell her you look good for your age.
5.If it’s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are.
6.The older woman is used to dating.
7.Communicate with her especially on the first date.
8.Don’t mispresent yourself to her.
9.She will want to meet you in a public place and allow her to make arrangements to meet, mainly in her hood.
10.If you say you are going to call her then call.
11.Neither one of you knows ahead of time where this will go.
12.There is no stigma to dating older women.
13.Know that many of us are quite experienced in relationships and we know how to treat a good man.
14.Always have a photo up on your profile site. No woman wants to respond to a ghost. Give us at least some sample of what you look like.
15.Please don’t make your profile sooooo long that it will totally bore us and even though you may look good, you will be passed by because of overwhelm.
16.Most cases if a woman doesn’t respond to your first response, it means she’s not interested.
17.Many of us are confident, used to being alone and on our own, so don’t feel that we want to be with you every minute of the day, because we don’t.
18.Hey men, if you are going to see a woman in another state for the first time, make sure you know what you are doing.
19.Many of us had much experience with BS and we know when it’s coming at us.
20.We know at this stage about not changing the other person but accepting them the way they are.
21.If she’s desperate and is afraid of being alone, stay away, far, far away.
22.If you have children, don’t be afraid of introducing her to them.

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In truth, there’s nothing wrong when it comes to a May-December relationship, because this relationship can still work and the benefits of dating older women or dating younger men is more apparent. So, older women and younger men, happy dating!